Men
They are complicated creatures.
Or total pain in the arses depending on the mood they catch you in.
Or total pain in the arses depending on the mood they catch you in.
I wouldn't mind getting into a relationship again but I'm not sure it's the right time so why do I have the following;
A. A good friend who has only ever been & will only ever be a good friend & despite knowing that still keeps hinting at dates? I don't want it but I don't want to be so harsh that it taints a friendship because he is lovely but he isn't for me.
B. Somebody who is on the bordeline between friend & acquaintance but who insists on constantly flirting, who I have known for a few years & have never given in to his advances because I know what he is after.
I don't know if that makes it worse though because I don't think he's used to girls saying no & I'm not sure he doesn't view it as a challenge. You'd think after 3 years he'd have given up but no, he's still as keen as mustard as was noticed by me the other night.
Whilst in the middle of a perfectly general conversation there was flirtiness on both sides but in my mind, more banter & how I am with everyone which he is aware of. In his, well, there's blunt & there's blunt isn't there? He was blunt about certain things. I was very close to being left speechless which for those who know me, is rare. I just about managed to claw a sarcastic comment from somewhere which had the mental effect of a cold shower.
Three years of no's is a long time. You'd think he'd have got the message wouldn't you?!
B. Somebody who is on the bordeline between friend & acquaintance but who insists on constantly flirting, who I have known for a few years & have never given in to his advances because I know what he is after.
I don't know if that makes it worse though because I don't think he's used to girls saying no & I'm not sure he doesn't view it as a challenge. You'd think after 3 years he'd have given up but no, he's still as keen as mustard as was noticed by me the other night.
Whilst in the middle of a perfectly general conversation there was flirtiness on both sides but in my mind, more banter & how I am with everyone which he is aware of. In his, well, there's blunt & there's blunt isn't there? He was blunt about certain things. I was very close to being left speechless which for those who know me, is rare. I just about managed to claw a sarcastic comment from somewhere which had the mental effect of a cold shower.
Three years of no's is a long time. You'd think he'd have got the message wouldn't you?!
4 Bangs On The Wall:
agreed, however I must point out that women can be equally as annoying :o) A sounds like the kind of bloke in the "when we're 40 if neither of us are married..." bracket whereas B just sounds like a bloke!!
metcountymounty is about right, B just sounds like a bloke.
Keep him as a loyal servant or pet, then when you get blokes you really don't like hanging off you, you can use him to chase them off.
MCM, you are right. Women can be worse pains in the arses sometimes....
A is very similar to that, yes! And I think you're right about B, he lives his life accumulating notches on his bedpost.
Area, you are a genius! I like the pet idea, reward when he's good, scold when he isn't & give him the odd pat or food treat :p Lol
It's rare that a bloke will not flirt with a female platonic friend at sometime. As for how he really feels. Give it some drink, and that'll answer your question.
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