A few weeks ago I blogged about him having a baby with his girlfriend & how in some way or another he would cock it up. I wasn't wrong.
My mum phoned C (his girlfriend) last night to find out exactly what was going on & whether L (my brother) was actually telling the truth about things. According to him C has changed & has kicked him out of their flat for no reason.
It's all lies.
First off my brother has lost his job which he isn't too bothered about because apparently, if you're not in work you don't have to pay CSA..... Right, whatever.
Secondly, after C told him he needs to get his act together he decided he'd creep downstairs during the night, take her car keys out of her bag & go out drinking. Except on the way back he crashed C's car & has almost written it off. He was breathalysed by the police & found to be well over the limit so I would imagine that little episode would add up to quite a few offences.
Barely a day later C found a text on my brother's phone saying "Thank you for what you've done for me. I love you so much". Naturally, C was very suspicious of this text & phoned the number. A girl answered & apparently, she loves my brother & the only reason he went to the scan with C was because this girl told him to.
This girl is 15. He says he hasn't been sleeping with her but he lies as easily as he breathes.
When he says he's been out with friends he has actually been with this girl.
I am absolutely disgusted with him & to be honest, I am ashamed to be his sister. C is carrying his child & he has put her through hell but has the audacity to say she is being unreasonable & 'doesn't understand him'!
Apparently, he is too young to be a dad... Well, tough because he was more than capable of using contraception on both occasions but chose not to.
I have also been told by him that I should feel sorry for him as he is in such trouble with the police. It was as much as I could do to hold my tongue & simply tell him he needs to grow up fast.
It's all about him & how he feels & how this is affecting him. C doesn't seem to matter & neither does his baby son or unborn child. All of whom he does not deserve & who are far too good for him.
Oh, & the other excuse for all this? "Dad was never there for me". Oh yes, because he's the only one dad was never there for!
My brother is a grown man but is behaving like a 12 year old. I can't bring myself to speak to him on the phone because I am so disgusted with him & his 'woe is me' attitude.
The pathetic thing is, I don't think losing C bothers him that much. For some ridiculous reason he thinks that because he is good looking he can always do better.